Before You Conclude




Never accept a narrative about anyone with any form of finality until you have met the person yourself. You may have an impression about a person based on what others say, but do not conclude till you have a one on one experience. Sometimes things are just not the way people say.

When someone comes to you with a narrative about another person that completely alters your perception of him or her, the question you need to ask in your head as you listen is this, did this person try to get or gain something from this other person and it didn't work out right?

by Pastor Poju Oyemade

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